After Graduating from Sydney University with a Masters of Health Science (Sexual Health) Somerset undertook clinical training hours at AISHM (Australian Institute for Sexual Health Medicine). Since 2012 Somerset has run a private practice focusing on the psycho sexual elements of both individuals and couples. One of the primary focuses of Somerset’s therapeutic approach is to provide a calm, honest and comfortable space where problems can be openly discussed. It is paramount that clients feel their issues are addressed without bias, prejudice or judgement. The philosophy of Somerset’s practice is to heal and guide through mindfulness, talk, and occasionally take home exercises designed to support the therapeutic environment.
Somerset’s philosophy on relationships and sexuality revolve around six key principles.
The goal for individuals or couples is to allow for these six key principles to permeate not only how we relate to ourselves, but our partners, our sex lives and our own self-pleasure. Whil
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Trust
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Understanding
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Openness
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Intimacy
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Empathy
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Acceptance
How does it work?
Individuals
Initially Somerset will see a client for a sixty-minute period. During this session, we would take a sexual history, and try to determine the most immediate needs to be addressed. During the initial consult, there will be some guidance from Somerset, and prompting questions, however it is important the client feels they are in a space where their voice is the most important and the trust is established. At the end of the first session Somerset will determine if follow up is required and try to determine a period of treatment.
Couples
Somerset would aim to see the couple initially at the same time – during the first half of the consult we would aim to address the primary concerns of the couple and aim to give everyone a chance to be heard and address their concerns. It is critical in couples’ sessions that there is not one person overwhelming the conversation, and Somerset is careful to allow for equality within the space. Often there is a need with follow up to see each person individually before coming together again. The dynamics of the relationship and the nature of the issues would dictate how the structure would work, and Somerset would take into consideration the needs of the couple when determining this.